However, when we overwhelm ourselves with optimism, self-confidence, then we will be stronger than anyone, and indeed we will achieve our goals! It only depends on us, we can only blame ourselves, or we can pat on the back; “It is done, I am one step closer to my goal”
Long-term goal should be broken down into short-term goals! For achieving each small goal, preparation, planning, implementation, and continuous monitoring to check out it is done right or not are required. If not, it is needs to be changed, re-designed and re realized. Then, after each small goal is achieved, a closure is needed. I was able to achieve this as well! Then we can begin the preparations for the next stage.
This, however, required to live in project approach. There are people around us who contribute to achieve our goals and successes. If they did not exist, maybe the environment would not be given to this, so we depend on them. That is possible too, that we also contribute to their successes to the same extent. So they also depend on us. There is no hierarchy here, there is interdependence.
This success-oriented project approach should be acquired in childhood. When we experience Failure, we have to learn to change, to get back to the the right direction. Therefore we must redesign. Neither the inventors made great successes in one day. Very often they failed, thus, they constantly had to rebuild their plans, and they finally managed their project. We have to learn that failure should be tolerated, easily processed, we need to move forward and redesign.
This is more difficult to learn for adults, but of course, nothing is impossible. But it is much more efficient to pay attention to it in childhood and consciously, like a project, teach it in school. It should be taught in childhood to design, implement, monitor and re-plan. How to change? How to live deliberately and consciously? What is motivation? Already in elementary school it should be started to teach and to build the significance of endurance. That everything has its way, and step by step everything can be done. This is not just for business and individual projects, but for the whole of our lives since its inception. We must learn to organize, manage and lead our life.
If all of these are created in our private lives, we will succeed in business life as well. The HR practices should be incorporated into the personal lives as well as in business world, too.